Incel is a sickness like anorexia and bulimia, you can not cure it by feeding it

(written by lawrence krubner, however indented passages are often quotes). You can contact lawrence at:, or follow me on Twitter.

A woman doesn’t cure anorexia by losing weight, and an incel does not cure being an incel by having sex. Both are a kind of mental illness, in both cases those with the sickness are often suffering a kind of hyper-conformism, a feeling they need to show deference to gender stereotypes; possibly these individuals failed to fully develop the boundaries that should exist between their own identities and the identities imposed on them from external sources.

With anorexia, the rage is directed inward, and among the incel, the rage is directed outward, as this disgusting story makes clear:

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